Do neurons know thereโs a world out there?
Do they know you had a car crash, or that youโre sitting in therapy right now?
Of course not. Neurons donโt know anything, they donโt even know โyou.โ They fire, link, and form networks. Thatโs all.
But we often talk about the brain as if it does: โMy brain just wonโt shut off.โ โMy body wonโt let me relax.โ Thatโs anthropomorphismโprojecting human qualities onto biology.
Neurons donโt know stories, trauma, or therapy. They respond to energyโfear, shame, delight, terror. Those surges cause neurons to fire and connect. When the charge is strong enough, the network that forms becomes frozen, even isolated. EMDR calls these stuck imprints โtarget nodes.โ
What we call remembering is really the conscious awareness of neurons firing in a familiar pattern at a certain frequency. The person becomes aware of what the brain has already enlivened. The neurons arenโt holding the memory as a storyโtheyโre simply a string of neurons lit up by a charge.
This also explains why EMDR can sometimes feel intense. Bilateral stimulation can activate the target nodes, cross network boundaries, create new patterns, and link in isolated information. When that happens, strong emotions may surge without context. Itโs not resistanceโitโs simply the biology of an isolated circuit coming to awareness and releasing its energy.
When we see neurons this way, something shifts. If neurons arenโt bad or brokenโif theyโre just firing habituallyโthen maybe Iโm not broken either.
Itโs a reframe into self-compassion and non-judgment: โItโs not me, itโs my neural networks.โ The brain is simply doing what brains doโresponding to activation, adjusting, and organizing. And with support, those same networks can change.
Instead of blame, thereโs space for fierce curiosity. Instead of shame, thereโs relief.
EMDR doesnโt โteachโ neurons a new narrative. They donโt learn like we do. What EMDR does is help defuse the charge in the circuitry, so the network can re-link to broader pathways. As the charge drains, emotions settle. The brain links to new information and perspectives as unknown neural pathways become available.
Take a car crash, for example. At first, the memory may feel like nothing but the collision, the sirens, the ambulance ride. The body stays flooded with fear and agitation, even when the crash is long past.
But with EMDR, bilateral stimulation reduces that intensity. As the charge lowers, other aspects of the memory emerge and become accessible: people who came to help, voices that offered comfort, the recognitionโdeep downโthat the event is over. This is true for complex trauma as well.
The autobiographical meaning of the experience changesโenergetically, both in the realm of thinking and feeling. The memory is no longer a prison. It becomes part of a wider, integrated story.
And hereโs where this bridges into nondual wisdom.
If neurons donโt know your story, then who does?
If the brain doesnโt carry your identity, then what does?
From the nondual perspective, neurons are activity within Awareness. They fire, link, and imprint, but they donโt know why. Awareness is what knows. It is the field in which brain activity, stories, and wholeness arise.
When we stop anthropomorphizing neurons, we stop identifying ourselves with them. And in that space, something deeper opens: I am not my neurons. I am not my trauma. I am the Awareness itself, in which neurons fire, memories appear, wholeness grows, and life happens.
So, do neurons know your story? No. They just fire and link. But through EMDR, those links can shift, the charge can drain, and new perspectives can emerge.
And beyond the neuronsโbeyond even the storyโwhat remains is what has always been there: Awareness.
Amanda Martin holds a PhD in Family Therapy and is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Supervisor, and EMDRIA Approved Consultant. With over 14 years of experience, she specializes in trauma therapy for individuals and families in residential and outpatient settings. Amanda also provides supervision for EMDR certification, EMDR consultants-in-training, and LMFT-Associates. Her mission is to help people find a healthy, joyful, and fulfilling path in life. Her warm, supportive, and interactive counseling style incorporates Symbolic Experiential Therapy, Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, EMDR, HeartMath, Animal-Assisted Therapy, Neurofeedback, and Collaborative Problem Solving.
Dr. Jose Carbajal, a U.S. Army veteran, earned his bachelorโs and masterโs degrees in social work and a masterโs in theological studies from Baylor University, and a Ph.D. in Social Work from the University of Texas at Arlington. With over 15 years of clinical experience and extensive teaching experience, Jose specializes in trauma, sexual abuse recovery, domestic violence, and substance abuse. His research focuses on trauma interventions, neuroscience, and faith. He is EMDR Certified, an Approved Consultant, and an EMDRIA Approved Trainer, with numerous publications and professional presentations to his name.
Amber holds a PhD in Counselor Education and Supervision from Regent University. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor in both Texas and Oklahoma and holds Supervisor credential for Texas. Amber is an EMDRIA consultant and trainer. She has over a decade of experience in the trauma field in work with uniformed services, domestic violence, childhood trauma and abuse, and recent mass trauma events. Amber provides consultation for EMDRIA certification, for consultants-in-training, and supervision for LPC-Associates. Amber continues to research the benefits of EMDR therapy with a variety of populations. Her goal is to help build strong clinicians who are well versed in trauma interventions to better support their clients. Amber sees a limited number of clients with a focus on trauma work, she is also a Certified Career Counselor and Certified through EAGALA to provide equine-assisted therapy.ย
Amber holds a PhD in Counselor Education and Supervision from Regent University. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor in both Texas and Oklahoma and holds Supervisor credential for Texas. Amber is an EMDRIA consultant and trainer. She has over a decade of experience in the trauma field in work with uniformed services, domestic violence, childhood trauma and abuse, and recent mass trauma events. Amber provides consultation for EMDRIA certification, for consultants-in-training, and supervision for LPC-Associates. Amber continues to research the benefits of EMDR therapy with a variety of populations. Her goal is to help build strong clinicians who are well versed in trauma interventions to better support their clients. Amber sees a limited number of clients with a focus on trauma work, she is also a Certified Career Counselor and Certified through EAGALA to provide equine-assisted therapy.ย
Dr. Jose Carbajal, a U.S. Army veteran, earned his bachelorโs and masterโs degrees in social work and a masterโs in theological studies from Baylor University, and a Ph.D. in Social Work from the University of Texas at Arlington. With over 15 years of clinical experience and extensive teaching experience, Jose specializes in trauma, sexual abuse recovery, domestic violence, and substance abuse. His research focuses on trauma interventions, neuroscience, and faith. He is EMDR Certified, an Approved Consultant, and an EMDRIA Approved Trainer, with numerous publications and professional presentations to his name.
Amanda Martin holds a PhD in Family Therapy and is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Supervisor, and EMDRIA Approved Consultant. With over 14 years of experience, she specializes in trauma therapy for individuals and families in residential and outpatient settings. Amanda also provides supervision for EMDR certification, EMDR consultants-in-training, and LMFT-Associates. Her mission is to help people find a healthy, joyful, and fulfilling path in life. Her warm, supportive, and interactive counseling style incorporates Symbolic Experiential Therapy, Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, EMDR, HeartMath, Animal-Assisted Therapy, Neurofeedback, and Collaborative Problem Solving.
